Hawaii Travel Vacations

Are you the type who will travel without many details @home being completed 1st?how 2explain need 2 uptightppl

i am related 2 ppl. who don't want to do anything fun until most minor details are completed. i tried 2 explain how fun a short, last min. trip for just 5 days 2 Hawaii could be + it turned into an irresponsibility accusation. 5 days of moving stuff out of a laudry room + fixing a door + window in MY home are supposed to take precedence over a break. i'm not on a schedule to get those things done immediaely, but my aunt wants to do it asap + feels ppl shouldn't travel until everything is finished. a great deal is on the line + i approach life w/ an attitude of if not now then when + she alwats thinks there's always tomorrow. i even offered to pay 1/2 her trip but she would rather do somthing else w/ her time and money. i never hang w/ ppl. who aren't spontaneous + i love my aunt dearly and appreciate all her help in organizing me (i have difficulty organizing), but i'd like to encourage her to enjoy life more. she's classic ocd w/ cleaning +unmedicated..how do i loosenupthoseppl
am actually 29 w/ a spouse (he's in iraq w/ the army) + 3 kids. i have my own funds for these adventures so it's not a money issue either in case u r wondering.

I had a bit of a hard time understanding your question. You sound like a teenager. She feels there's always tomorrow to take trips, you feel like there's always tomorrow to get needed things done. Let me guess…those needed things never get done.